"You’re like the North Pole of a magnet, and she is also like the North Pole of a magnet. There’s no way for both of you to be close together. There’s a force that’ll always push you both apart. This force is called the obstacle.
However, if you put a metal bar in between, both you magnets will stick to it. You’ll be close to each other. That metal bar dissolves the force that pushes both of you away. And that metal bar is what we called LOVE."
i quote this from a bk i read recently. its written by a singaporean, abt a singaporean's story. haha.