Wednesday, November 12, 2008
learning and making mistake
1:01:00 PM
this msg is for someone. let mi give that person some clue...- u are a guy- u wear specs- u have more than a blog(HINT~)firstly, i would like to congratulate u that u are normal teenager!!! haha. cos whatever u feel nw is what other teens feel. though it might not happen to everyone, but a certain percentage of us do experience this. it comes in different aspects, may be studies, frens, relationships, family or even you yourself. but this feeling( i doubt u can describe it entirely) is just a part of a process of growing up. I AM TELLING U ALL THESE BECOS I AM ALSO FEELING THE SAME THING.u are actually finding an identity of yourself. what does this actually mean??? it means that u are searching and exploring your potentials. too chim?! in other words, u are trying to understand YOURSELF... yes, most teens feel sad and depressed during this time. thats why we require the assistance of our frens and family. dun tell mi u have no one to tok to, cos that is just an excuse.sometimes the best listener is someone who u nv thought he or she would ever understand u!!!u dun nd to force yourself to be optimistic or anything. the most impt rule of life- BE YOU. another thing i wan to bring up. that is stop comparing yourself with others!!! if u dun understand why living creatures compare, i rather u dun do that. its all in your mindset. as a saying goes, 'no one can make u feel wat u feel unless u let them.' pls dun tell yourself how pitiful u are and how well the rest are doing. thats just pure crap!!! a true survivor is someone who can live life in a way that he or she does not feel inferior even if he or she is not the better( take note- the word here is better, not best). thats when happiness deep down in your heart will come and find u. u dun nd to change the way u behave or speak to please others. thats not u!!! u cant remain that way forever. sooner or later others will realise and that will definitely not be gd. what u should change is your attitude and way of thinking. thats how u can realli change a person. this is then changing, not covering up. understand the fact that the roots of your inferiority lies in you. take a small step at a time. though the effect isnt the most obvious, but a few years down the road, u will be a better person. a better person, in YOUR OWN EYES!!!so dun feel depressed. this is onli a small part of life. learnt to be yourself and look at things differently. that will help u in understanding and handling things. rmb, u, U and U!! understand yourself before u understand others. i wish u all the best and hope that u will find my opinions helpful =)
